Starting thread: Bondage model for training session in London
Just wanted to add something about consent and documentation. When you're working with models for shibari training, especially if multiple riggers will be practicing, make sure everyone signs clear consent forms. Document what was agreed to. I've seen situations get messy when expectations weren't written down. Also photograph the rope marks after sessions for safety records in case anything comes up later.
How often are you planning these training sessions? Weekly, monthly? I'm interested in improving my rope skills but need something regular to actually make progress with bondage techniques.
Looking at fortnightly sessions initially to give everyone time to practice between meetings. Consistency matters more than frequency when learning shibari properly. DM me if you want details about timing and location.
One thing nobody mentioned yet - have a spotter present during training sessions. Someone who isn't actively tying but can watch for safety issues, time the ties, and provide an extra set of hands if someone needs to be released quickly. Essential for any BDSM rope practice.
thanks for this thread, learning a lot
About rope: what beginner mistakes do you see most?
Most common mistake is tying too tight. New riggers think bondage needs to be super restrictive right away. You can get great restriction without cutting off circulation. Learn to check nerve points and always keep safety shears nearby during shibari sessions.
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I modeled for a training group last year and it was a really positive experience. The key thing for me was having breaks built into the session. Rope bondage can be demanding physically even when done correctly. Make sure your model gets water breaks and time to stretch between ties.
What's the skill level you're looking for in participants? I've only done basic ties so far but want to progress to suspension eventually. Would this be appropriate for someone still learning fundamentals of BDSM rope work?
We're planning mixed skill levels actually. More experienced riggers can work on advanced shibari while beginners practice foundations. Everyone learns from watching each other. Message me privately if you want to discuss your specific experience level.
Just a reminder that models should also be compensated appropriately for their time. Even in training settings, they're providing a valuable service and taking on physical demands. Discuss rates upfront.
Re shibari - what kind of meetups work best?
Good point about compensation. What's typical in London for bondage modeling in training contexts?
Rates vary but professionalism matters more than trying to go cheap. A good rope model who understands shibari and can give feedback is worth proper compensation. They're not just sitting there passive, they're actively helping you learn.
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Safety question - what rope material do you recommend for training? I've been using jute for shibari but wondering if beginners should start with something softer for BDSM practice sessions.
Jute is fine but treat it properly. Beginners often do better with cotton rope initially because it's more forgiving on skin during those inevitable mistakes. Once your technique improves you can move to jute or hemp for proper shibari.
I'd be interested in modeling for this. I've got experience with rope bondage and understand the importance of clear communication during ties. How should interested models reach out?
Sophie_L - great to hear from you. DM me with your experience background and availability. We need models who can articulate what they're feeling during ties so riggers can learn proper tension and placement.
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Question about aftercare - how is that typically handled in training sessions? With multiple people practicing bondage on the same model I imagine that needs extra attention.
Aftercare is crucial. The model should have a designated person responsible for their wellbeing throughout the session. Not just physical aftercare but emotional support. Rope bondage is intense even in training contexts. Have blankets, water, and quiet space available.
Any specific studios in London you'd recommend for hosting these shibari training sessions? Looking for spaces that understand BDSM safety requirements.
Several dungeon spaces in London are set up properly with suspension points and safety equipment. Look for venues that regularly host rope events. They'll have the infrastructure and understand the insurance requirements for bondage activities.
Also check what equipment the venue provides versus what you need to bring. Some places have their own rope and carabiners, others expect you to bring everything. Safety shears should always be your own though.
We've secured a space with proper rigging points and safety equipment. Still finalizing numbers for the first session. If you're seriously interested in participating as a rigger or model, message me privately with your background. Need to keep group size manageable for effective learning.